I'm sure that most parents would rather have their adult children live close by....but if they do not....then those times of the year when they are together can be special times....as opposed to seeing your son or daughter every day....and just saying...."Hey....what's up?" Our son knows that when we do get together for a day or more....that in that time....I will at some point strongly give the same advice. I say it to our son so often that it is down to three words...."Remember son....incorporate!"....and he will know exactly what I mean.
As a matter of fact....I do not personally know a single brother or sister in the Lord that I would not give this advice to. Let me explain that advice....just about all of us that I know have wonderful pastors.....good men who sincerely desire to serve the Lord in the best ways that they know how to. The problem is in what they do not know.....because of the church day and age that we live in.
As spiritual children of God....we need spiritual food....nourishment. I imagine that a man can live for months without food before he would die.....but spiritually we can live most of our lives without this spiritual food....and maybe not die....we might physically even be a perfectly healthy person....but we would be susceptible to all of the wiles of the enemy....and have little to no discernment....and be easy prey for wolves in sheep's clothing!
Bible reading is spiritual food....certainly....sufficient for all of our needs....but God designed it that there is one primary and indispensable food....and that is the preached Word! They call it a means of grace....but we tend to accept that and pass over it without really knowing what it means....or the importance of it! There is a needed power in hearing God's Word preached that is greater even than reading the Bible. If this were not so then we would not even need preachers....for we could just stay home and read God's Word for ourselves.
That being said....it is not a contradiction that we go to God's Word to verify what the preacher is telling us....but this man...this shepherd (hopefully) is given a gift....in preaching with power! To a certain extent we all are in our own way to seek this gift...."Pursue love....and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts....especially that you may prophesy...." (1 Corinthians 14:1 ESV) When I am doing what I do....and when you are doing with others what you do....hopefully we are partaking in the commands of that Bible verse from Corinthians!
This post is getting a little bit too long....so to summarize....when there is little or no water to drink....go to where there is water! Incorporate into your weekly and even if possible your daily routine....preaching from....(a phrase that I have used so often over so many years)....preaching from preachers of the past....or those preachers today who preach like preachers of the past. Spurgeom sermons on YouTube and other venues....and sermons from Martyn Lloyd Jones....and John MacArthur....and John Piper....and Michael Horton....and Sinclair Ferguson....and Derek Thomas....and Paul Washer....there are so many....are easy to find and listen to....and if you do the work....and search for them....you will find them. INCORPORATE their sermons into you spiritual life!
Also...go to ministries such as....ligonier.org and gty.org and whitehorseinn.org and refnet.fm....and park yourself there....for sermons from....preachers of the past....and preachers today who preach like preachers from the past....would eventually give you the discernment to go to ministries like this anyway!