As a personal preference....I cannot think of too many things more enjoyable than conversation with another Christian on our God, our Savior and His written Word to us. Conversely....to spend an hour or so with a brother in Christ and not talk about our shared faith is more than disappointing. The following post from December of 2012 is a simple dialogue. Betty and John Hunter are their way to visit Jen and Tom Ayers. They know each other but as it turns out....not as well as they thought. What I want to do here in this post is take the same concept and apply it a little bit differently. I'll title the post which directly follows what is below....Who Knew Part II
Who Knew? (December of 2012)
One Act Play...sort of.
John: This is my smile.
Betty: I know better than that.
John: I know. I like Tom. It's just....It's all hunting and sports with him.
Betty: What about me? Jen is like... almost a chef...(pausing) But they were nice enough to ask us over.
John: I just hope that I don't have to look at more pictures of Tom crouching over a dead deer.
Meanwhile at the home of Tom and Jen Ayers.
Jen: Tom! Try to smile. They're nice people. It's not going to be that bad.
Tom: Jen. I know they are nice but we have nothing in common. John is a contractor. Going to Lowe's is like sitting in the dentist's chair to me. And Betty...Her conversation is all triglycerides, blood pressure and vitamins while I haven't been to a doctor in my life.
Jen: (Peeking through the drapes as a light flashed outside) They're here...be nice.
Tom: I'm always nice!
Betty and John enter with a bottle of wine as a gift.
Jen: Thank-you. Ooh, Tears of Gettysburg. It's one of my favorite wines!
Tom: Hi John. How's everything?
John: Hi Tom. Fine. How's everything with you?
Tom: Good.
Betty: It's just about to rain. My Arthritis always acts up in damp weather.
Jen: Well we have dry heat. Maybe you won't notice?
Jen served up a beautiful (there's no other word for it) vegetable plate and dip. and Tom didn't have to show pictures, for a mounted deer head was hanging a foot over John's head at the table. Tom felt obliged to comment.
John: Wow! Get that this year Tom?
Tom: Yeah....ten point. I was only an hour in the woods.
Betty: This dip is great Jen.
Jen: I'll give you the recipe Betty and walk you step by step through it.
Tom: What have you been up to John?
John: I'm remodelling the kitchen. The house is a disaster area right now.
An hour into the visit and John's complete design was laid out for Betty and Tom. Tom then started talking about his golf game. John just smiled and nodded not having the slightest idea what a slice was. Jen took Betty into the kitchen to prepare the dip while Betty analyzed the ingredients to see how the the evening would affect her triglycerides. The four then retreated to the living room and Tom was happy to get out from under the mounted dear head.
John: Whew! It's 9:30. Maybe we ought to be heading home Betty?
Betty: Well, church in the morning. We go to a 9 AM service.
Tom: Where do you go to church?
John: First Reformed Presbyterian in Lawrenceville. How about you?
Jen: We go to First Baptist right here!
Betty: Do you have a good preacher there?
Tom: Betty, he preaches the Cross of Christ every week. I don't know what I'd do without it.
John: That's unusual Tom...preaching Christ.....We're blessed too. I don't think that we have ever had a Lord's Day where the Gospel wasn't preached. We had spent five years in a church previous to First Reformed Presbyterian where the Gospel was never really preached; the name of Jesus was everywhere but nothing about our lost condition and Christ's atoning work on the cross.
Jen: Hey! Can you two stay a little bit longer. I'd like to go into the den and show you Tom's bookshelves. Have you ever heard of Michael Horton?
John: Jen, we were on a White Horse Inn cruise in April and had conversations with all of those guys! I'd like to see the books. Got any decaf coffee?
Tom: It'll only take a few minutes. What about getting up early?
Betty: Ah...we both had afternoon naps today...Right John?
John: I'm not tired at all.
John and Betty then spent and additional two and a half hours at the homes of their friends. In the car on the way home the conversation went like this:
John. Ya know. I really like Tom. He's a wonderful brother in Christ.
Betty: When do you think the kitchen will be done so we can ask them over?
John: The kitchen doesn't have to be done. I already asked Tom about coming over next week. You don't mind do you?
Betty: No! We'll just put some plastic up over the doorway to the kitchen.
Meanwhile back at Tom and Jen's:
Jen: How about that Tom, and I just love Betty. What a wonderful time tonight!
Tom: I was wrong about John. Yeah he has those interests but I never knew that they paled next to his Christian faith.
Jen: Who knew
Tom: Yeah. Who knew?
Jim: This is my smile.
Toni: I know better than that.
Toni: Well it's the same with Linda. If it's not the schools it's the library and if it's not the library it's something else.
Jim: Listen to us talking about our best friends....not only friends but wonderful Christian friends!
Toni: I want to get together with them....but I feel guilty every time the evening is over.
Pete: I just feel that I'm letting them down. I'm no help to them.
Linda: I know....but how can we have best friends and they probably don't even know that much about us?
Pete: It's not only Toni and Jim....I don't think that I've had a real edifying conversation with another Christian in....I don't even remember when.
the dog begins to bark...
Pete: I'm tired of smiling.
Pete: And all's well!