The message on John Piper's desiringgod.org is fascinating. It's directed to college students but is also directed to us. The title of this post is the title of the message.
I wanted to add this recent post that was titled....
The Mailman Cometh....With News That.....The Bridegroom Cometh!
There is a blessing for you here....possibly an eternal blessing of salvation....if you but listen to and consider the words of a sermon that I'll recommend....not even a sermon but an episode....a sixteen minute episode....taken from a sermon from John Piper that was preached in December of 2008. Just go to....desiringgod.org....if you will....and listen to....Jesus Loves His Bride....and I pray that you do!